You can’t lead with character and vigour if you see yourself as a victim. Simple as that. – Lisa Martin
When things go wrong in your life, you’re responsible. I know that sounds harsh but trust me, when you look at life this way you can take control. Rather than focusing on the external factors that contribute to your problems, you zero in on what you can actually change: you.
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Figure out what you need to do next time to get a better result and move forward.
Sure, there were likely other people involved your mishap, but blaming them won’t make you a better leader. It will cause you to feel helpless and frustrated. It will make others see you as a victim or complainer.
If you notice that your mind is sometimes consumed by thoughts of what other people have done wrong or how other people need to change, let this be a major warning bell to you.
This expenditure of mental energy will lead you nowhere.
Leadership Development: Honestly assess whether you own your failures.
When was the last time you acknowledged a short-coming?
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Lisa Martin has made it her mission to help companies keep and cultivate leaders. She’s the creator of the Lead + Live Better leadership programs, author of five books, including the bestselling Briefcase Moms, and she is a seasoned speaker, facilitator and executive coach.